I would like to take a moment to ask, "How do you grieve?"
Everyone has a different process, I think that by everyone sharing their grieving process we could help each other in the grieving process!
Here is my story:
When we found out that we had miscarried, around 7 weeks we were heartbroken! I cried, I wondered why God would take my precious miracle from us, I became upset when I saw a pregnant woman or babies, I began to worry if I could carry a child...so much ran through my head! I took 2 days off from work, where everyone was so understanding and just cried! My husband took off work with me and held me for 2 days while I cried. We thought he was a boy and named him Wesley Brayden Crismond, we were going to call him "Brayden" After my husband and I went back to work, it was painful having to relive my story all over again. I had a co-worker that told everyone prior to my returning to work so that helped make it easier but the nights were the hardest for me! I drove to my parent's house one night at 10:30pm just to lay in bed with my mom, have her hold me and play with my hair while I cried, telling me it was all going to be ok!
2 years later, I still think about him! I would like to think that he is our 14 month old daughter's guardian angel and we can't wait to meet our sweet boy again, one day in Heaven!
Please, feel free to share how you grieve? You never know who you can help/touch along this heartbreaking journey!