Your baby is gone. No one can change this fact. Nothing can bring that precious baby back to you.
This is the heartbreak of miscarriage. You were looking forward to being that child's parent. You were storing up love, hugs and kisses, planning on making memories together, becoming a family... until one day that all came crashing down. Before you even had a chance to hold your precious miracle, she slipped beyond your graps. Now, all your expectations and hopes for the future are dashed and you're left feeling empty!
This is a critical time for you. There are phone calls to make, post of facebook to update, work to contact, medical needs to address. It seems as though the world keeps spinning but your world has stopped!
Take a moment, a moment to yourself! Then take a moment with your husband, as he is grieving too! You can even take a moment with your mom (It sure helped me!) The world will wait, family will understand, Facebook will be there next week and work will understand (we pray!). Take time to grieve, take time to mourn the loss of that precious baby, you need it!
Just remember, in this time of grief and pain, you have lost a baby but please find comfort in knowing that you will meet him or her one day again, in Heaven.
*please note: This is the view of the Author, Jodi Crismond, in no way shape or form does this reflect views of the site.